A pass for a flirt, a night, or the thing you've never asked for out loud.
Nobody can browse you. There's no list and no search. You're shown to one person at a time, and only they see you.
Your contact stays hidden. Your pass is kept so we can find your match — but how to reach you is released only when you've both said yes. A no is never passed on.
Nothing is promised. A maybe means not yet. Every yes still gets said out loud, in person.
↓ Tap any line on the pass to fill it in
Add how to reach you — without it nobody can answer your pass.
You'll be shown one person at a time. Nobody sees how to reach you unless you both say yes — and if you don't, they're never told.
They're never told you passed. Say yes and nothing happens unless they say yes too — then you each get the other's contact, and the rest is yours.
This is your key. It's the only way back to your pass — save it now.
A pass is an introduction, not an agreement. A maybe is a no for now. Whatever you decide gets said out loud, in person — and either of you can change your mind then.
“We seek to overcome barriers that stand between us and a recognition of our inner selves, the reality of those around us…”Immediacy · one of the 10 Principles
You don't have to already know what you want. That's what the maybe column is for — the things you're drawn to but have never asked for. Writing it down once is easier than saying it at 3am, and it means the conversation starts somewhere honest.
To find you someone, your pass has to be kept — so it is. What isn't: no email, no password, no phone number beyond the one handle you chose, no location, no message history. There's nothing to log into, so there's nothing to break into. Your handle is released only on a mutual yes, and Delete my pass removes it and every decision attached to it, for good.
…and then there's only LOVE runs it, at 7:00 & E — couples and moresomes of all orientations, a sobriety check and an Informed Enthusiastic Consent orientation at the door, and two areas: Just Us, and Open To More. It isn't strictly pairs; it's that you can't walk up alone. That rule is why this exists.
There's no signal out there. Download the pass so whatever you agreed is already on your phone.